How Do I Reduce Flakes?

Q: How do I reduce flakes?   A: You build a solid connection with her before getting her phone number. You don’t go for the phone number as soon as possible. You don’t ask her out as soon as possible. Exchange some texts. Send her a voice recording telling...

Sometimes They Just Disappear

Sometimes someone disappears from your life and you’re not completely sure why. It can be frustrating, but it’s part of the game.   If you reach out and try to contact the other person and they stop responding to you, let them go. You can try reaching...

Radical Self Confidence and the Friction It Can Cause

This post is going to sound arrogant… Oh well…    I’ve reached a level of self love and self confidence that’s off putting for some people.   It’s not an unhealthy self love or self confidence. It’s not foolish overconfidence...