There is no escaping your emotions. That is not the way. So many guys wish they could approach women, interact with them, flirt with them, get intimate with them and somehow not FEEL anything but positive emotions or nothing at all… Not… How…...read more
Seamless Sexual Escalation – Intermediate Level
Quick post on SEXUAL ESCALATION… This is for guys that are a little bit more “intermediate” in their skills. When you have established a sufficient connection with a woman… a STRONG connection… physicality, touching, kissing, and sex will...read more
Is This the Way the World Is?
Question for you all… Let me set the stage first though… We all know the world can be… Hmmm… Not nice at times. Some people view the world as a zero sum game. They see the world divided into winners and losers. Those with power and those...read more
Education or Learning to “Detach”… What’s More Important?
On Buddhism and “detaching”… I believe there’s a certain amount of “attachment” that’s HEALTHY and a certain amount that’s UNHEALTHY. Some people say it’s attachment that HOLDS PEOPLE in ignorance… An...read more
She Wants Me to Come Out with Her Friends
CommonA question I get: What do I do if the woman invites me out with her friends? Go! Hang out with her and her friends. You should have the mentality that her attraction towards you is going to be even MORE solidified after hanging out with her friends. Most guys...read more
Be Someone You’re Not
Not happy with who you are? Be someone else! You are free to shed your skin and be anyone you want. I would never advise someone to abandon their core values and morals… Their ethics. That stuff stays with you. You don’t change that. The way you dress, walk, talk,...read more
Making Moves and then Making them Right
Success with women is not about making all of the right moves… It’s about making moves and then making them right. You will never internalize everything you need to know before taking action. That’s not how it works. If you keep reading and watching...read more
Seeing Through the Eyes of the Hot Girl
Many men, lack the ability to see through the eyes of the hot chick. She’s circled, she’s eyed down, she’s checked out CONSTANTLY by men who lack the ability to empathize with her. They think about their own desires and are TOO SELFISH! A...read more
How Bill Gates Became Successful By Failing
Quick post today… I was watching an interview of Bill Gates today. He said that one of the reasons that he was successful was that he worked so hard early on in his career. He was fanatical. He worked day and night. He said that he was moving so much faster...read more
Stop Running From Your Emotions: Get Settled In
There are some dating coaches that advocate approaching LOTS of women. What do I mean by LOTS? 20, 30, 40, or even 50+ women in a day. There is no improvement being made when approaching is taken to that level. How do you get COMFORTABLE in your own skin and...read more
Sex Addiction Holding You Back?
I was doing a free-consultation for a prospective client recently. After speaking with him for a short while, I couldn’t help but ask a blunt question to him… “John, do you think you might be a sex addict or at least have a borderline sexual addiction?” (We’ll call...read more
How Soon Should I Text Her?
I’m often asked by students, “After I get a girl’s phone number, how soon should I text her?” Like many things in the dating world, there is no perfect answer to this question. It depends. Sometimes texting her right away will get the best response. Sometimes waiting...read more