Setting the Bar Low and Building Up

by | Nov 3, 2014 | Approaching, Beginner Topic

Wouldn’t it be great if you could walk out into the world and start approaching beautiful women everywhere and anywhere you go without a second thought or any hesitation? Yeah, that would be great, but that can be a recipe for burning out and unrealistic for most guys...

Caring What Other People Think

by | Aug 19, 2014 | Approaching, Attitude, Inner Game, Mentality

If I’m going to kick a soccer ball into a goal, shoot a basketball through a hoop, “fill in the blank with one of your favorite activities”… What’s going to be more effective… Being 100% focused on the task at hand, or being somewhat focused on the...

The Number One Way to Beat Approach Anxiety

by | Jun 3, 2012 | Approaching, Beginner Topic

Many guys waste a lot of time searching for ways to overcome their approach anxiety to no avail. For those that don’t know, “approach anxiety” is just what it sounds like. It’s a fear-based emotion that is experienced when you’re about to approach a woman that you’re...

How Do I Ask the Girl Out?

by | Feb 3, 2012 | Approaching, Beginner Topic, Phone Game, Texting

Today I’m going to address a question that was asked by one of my phone-coaching clients. He recently met a girl online, exchanged a few messages with her, got her phone number, and spoke with her on the phone a few times. He swears this is the part that he always...