by coach | Oct 16, 2015 | Approaching, Attitude, Beginner Topic, Failing, Fear, Mentality, Mindset, State of Mind
Quick post today… I was watching an interview of Bill Gates today. He said that one of the reasons that he was successful was that he worked so hard early on in his career. He was fanatical. He worked day and night. He said that he was moving so much faster...
by coach | Jul 19, 2015 | Approach Anxiety, Approaching, Attitude, Beginner Topic, Communication, Fear, Inner Game, Mentality
There are some dating coaches that advocate approaching LOTS of women. What do I mean by LOTS? 20, 30, 40, or even 50+ women in a day. There is no improvement being made when approaching is taken to that level. How do you get COMFORTABLE in your own skin and...
by coach | Nov 3, 2014 | Approaching, Beginner Topic
Wouldn’t it be great if you could walk out into the world and start approaching beautiful women everywhere and anywhere you go without a second thought or any hesitation? Yeah, that would be great, but that can be a recipe for burning out and unrealistic for most guys...
by coach | Aug 19, 2014 | Approaching, Attitude, Inner Game, Mentality
If I’m going to kick a soccer ball into a goal, shoot a basketball through a hoop, “fill in the blank with one of your favorite activities”… What’s going to be more effective… Being 100% focused on the task at hand, or being somewhat focused on the...
by coach | Jun 3, 2012 | Approaching, Beginner Topic
Many guys waste a lot of time searching for ways to overcome their approach anxiety to no avail. For those that don’t know, “approach anxiety” is just what it sounds like. It’s a fear-based emotion that is experienced when you’re about to approach a woman that you’re...
by coach | Feb 3, 2012 | Approaching, Beginner Topic, Phone Game, Texting
Today I’m going to address a question that was asked by one of my phone-coaching clients. He recently met a girl online, exchanged a few messages with her, got her phone number, and spoke with her on the phone a few times. He swears this is the part that he always...