How Do I Reduce Flakes?

Q: How do I reduce flakes?   A: You build a solid connection with her before getting her phone number. You don’t go for the phone number as soon as possible. You don’t ask her out as soon as possible. Exchange some texts. Send her a voice recording telling...

How Soon Should I Text Her?

I’m often asked by students, “After I get a girl’s phone number, how soon should I text her?” Like many things in the dating world, there is no perfect answer to this question. It depends. Sometimes texting her right away will get the best response. Sometimes waiting...