by Erik | Apr 19, 2018 | Inner Game
Being controlling is a HUGE deal breaker, for both men and women. There is a fine line between wanting to influence someone in a positive way and wanting them to behave in a way that is pleasing to you. There’s nothing wrong with challenging someone, bringing...
by Erik | Nov 30, 2017 | Inner Game, Uncategorized
Your emotional state is an important thing to learn to control. It takes time to learn to do so, and to a certain degree, we’re not entirely in control of our emotions. If someone is about to attack you or one of your loved ones, go ahead and try not to get an...
by coach | Feb 17, 2017 | Inner Game, Mentality, Mindset
There is no escaping your emotions. That is not the way. So many guys wish they could approach women, interact with them, flirt with them, get intimate with them and somehow not FEEL anything but positive emotions or nothing at all… Not… How…...
by coach | Jul 19, 2015 | Approach Anxiety, Approaching, Attitude, Beginner Topic, Communication, Fear, Inner Game, Mentality
There are some dating coaches that advocate approaching LOTS of women. What do I mean by LOTS? 20, 30, 40, or even 50+ women in a day. There is no improvement being made when approaching is taken to that level. How do you get COMFORTABLE in your own skin and...
by coach | Apr 18, 2015 | Approach Anxiety, Fear, Inner Game, Personality, Sex, Sexuality
I was doing a free-consultation for a prospective client recently. After speaking with him for a short while, I couldn’t help but ask a blunt question to him… “John, do you think you might be a sex addict or at least have a borderline sexual addiction?” (We’ll call...
by coach | Nov 3, 2014 | Inner Game, Integrity, Lifestyle
When it comes to improving yourself with women, integrity is a crucial piece of the puzzle for long-term success and happiness. High-quality women have been taught from a young age to weed out guys that are lacking integrity and men that don’t have their best...