by coach | Feb 17, 2017 | Inner Game, Mentality, Mindset
There is no escaping your emotions. That is not the way. So many guys wish they could approach women, interact with them, flirt with them, get intimate with them and somehow not FEEL anything but positive emotions or nothing at all… Not… How…...
by coach | Jul 9, 2016 | Lifestyle, Mentality, Mindset, Uncategorized
On Buddhism and “detaching”… I believe there’s a certain amount of “attachment” that’s HEALTHY and a certain amount that’s UNHEALTHY. Some people say it’s attachment that HOLDS PEOPLE in ignorance… An...
by coach | Oct 16, 2015 | Approaching, Attitude, Beginner Topic, Failing, Fear, Mentality, Mindset, State of Mind
Quick post today… I was watching an interview of Bill Gates today. He said that one of the reasons that he was successful was that he worked so hard early on in his career. He was fanatical. He worked day and night. He said that he was moving so much faster...
by coach | Jul 19, 2015 | Approach Anxiety, Approaching, Attitude, Beginner Topic, Communication, Fear, Inner Game, Mentality
There are some dating coaches that advocate approaching LOTS of women. What do I mean by LOTS? 20, 30, 40, or even 50+ women in a day. There is no improvement being made when approaching is taken to that level. How do you get COMFORTABLE in your own skin and...
by coach | Nov 2, 2014 | Attitude, Beginner Topic, Inner Game, Mentality
“Approach anxiety” is just what it sounds like in the context of meeting women… It’s fear and anxiety experienced when approaching a woman that you’re attracted to. Approach anxiety can be mild or extremely intense. Some men experience an all out adrenaline release at...
by coach | Aug 19, 2014 | Approaching, Attitude, Inner Game, Mentality
If I’m going to kick a soccer ball into a goal, shoot a basketball through a hoop, “fill in the blank with one of your favorite activities”… What’s going to be more effective… Being 100% focused on the task at hand, or being somewhat focused on the...
