Success with women is not about making all of the right moves… It’s about making moves and then making them right. You will never internalize everything you need to know before taking action. That’s not how it works. If you keep reading and watching videos there is no magic force that you will eventually “break through” to… that will drag you out to meet women. You have to start taking action regardless of how “fully prepared” you feel. You will never be “fully prepared”… Prepared enough is the goal. Have a solid basic game plan and then go.
You’ll never know bodybuilding in its entirety before taking action and getting in the gym. You get a basic weight lifting routine down and then you get your ass in the gym.
Can you imagine trying to learn everything about martial arts before taking action? Do you think you can internalize the mindset and emotional state of a master martial artist “before” taking action. It’s ok to study different martial arts mindsets “a little”, but that is supplemental to training.
A bodybuilder might read some books about mindset… He may take a few “supplements” like protein, creatine, amino acids, vitamins…but the work of sculpting his body happens in the gym.
Time to start taking action. If you have a basic understanding of how this stuff works it’s time to apply the 90/10 rule.
90% or more action. 10% or less reading, studying, affirmations, inner game stuff.
Unless you’re here just for entertainment… and hey… Some of you are. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with guys that just want to learn some concepts, incorporate those concepts into their life, and not change too radically… but…
If you really do want to change, don’t think you can read your way there. You’ll eventually start getting more and more negative… More reading will not motivate you after a certain point. It will actually start to frustrate you.
You’ll keep searching for that “high”…
Feeling frustrated? Unmotivated? Not fully living the dream? Looking for others to blame like the society we live in or feminists? Making excuses about not being ready?
Here’s how being ready works… You eventually realize there is no being fully ready. You have to start going even though you don’t feel fully ready… I’m not saying you go completely unprepared…
Ready enough, aim, fire, calibrate… Ready enough, aim, fire, calibrate…